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iQuestions Faculty, Dr. David Eckman
Question:
Is a particular addiction a genetic condition?
Answer:
A lot of research has gone into the issue of whether there is a genetic
predisposition towards addiction. A lot of anecdotal evidence, a lot of
scientific evidence points in that direction.
But there is something much deeper genetically hard-wired into us
that we must never forget, and it’s more crucial than genes— and it’s
this: the heart hates pain. It has a genetic predisposition against pain.
When pain occurs, the person will do two things. They will try and get
rid of pain first, and then they’ll try and get rid of pain two different
ways. One way is to shut it down, to ignore it, to pretend it’s not
there, and the other is to drown it in pleasure.
That’s where addiction comes in. Because the heart genetically hates
pain, people tend to go in the direction of addictive behaviors to kill
the pain in their life. There’s a simple equation: pain plus pleasure
equals addiction.
When that equation takes over, a person is in danger.
That’s why it’s so important to deal with the pain in one’s life. It’s
much more important than knowing genetics. It’s knowing how the
human heart works.
We hate pain. How are we supposed to address pain? Through
relationships, and if it’s physical pain, through medicine. But we’re not
supposed to rot in our pain, because we’ll never do that. We’ll look for
a way out, either by suppressing it or by drowning it. Either way, it’s a
dangerous way to go.
Pain needs to be addressed, and typically it needs to be addressed
relationally.
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