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iQuestions Expert, Doug Rosenau
Question:
What can you tell us about our "erogenous zones" to help ignite our
love life?
Answer:
We hear a lot about erogenous zones, and I thought maybe I would
take the time to just define that for you.
It’s helpful to look at the erogenous zones as maybe level one, two,
and three.
Level three erogenous zones are just our skin. We just have this
sensuality throughout our body that can be stimulated and enjoyed in
our lovemaking and our sexual intimacy.
The level two erogenous zones would be places where there are more
nerve endings, like the neck. The mouth has a lot of nerve endings, as
do the inner thighs and the area under our arms— just places that can
be more sensitive that can be a lot of fun. That’s really where couples
need to start their foreplay and pay attention to in their lovemaking—
more looking at the level two and level three erogenous zones.
And then the level one erogenous zones would be more the actual
genital area and the nipples, where we would be focusing on more of
genitality, on the genital area of lovemaking.
So, how do you have just enjoyable fun and balance in lovemaking? I
think part of it is just taking advantage of all of the erogenous zones.
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And husbands, let me just say a word to you, please: wives really
don’t like it when we go for the level one erogenous zones
immediately. Take some time in the level two and the level three. Just
enjoy her skin. Enjoy kissing and touching, and create that sensuality
that can then let us go into the level one and the arousal and greater
intensity.
So, just bless you and remember to use all three of the erogenous
zones.
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