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iQuestions Expert, Doug Rosenau 
 
 
Question: 
 
Why is my husband so excited about oral sex? 
 
Answer: 
 
Wives, you have probably wondered sometimes why your husband 
gets so excited about oral sex. 
 
I think part of the reason would be, if I try to analyze this, that he just 
really enjoys your body. You’re Eve to him. You’re exciting. You’re 
alluring. And so, sometimes performing oral sex on you really gives 
him that chance to be close to your body, your genital area, and it’s 
tremendously arousing. 
 
But I think, gals, another part of this is that men really do see their 
penis as an important part of lovemaking. They don’t entrust it to 
anyone else but their wives. 
 
And so, I remember this young couple I was working with, and she 
said, “He just wants me to have oral sex, and I just don’t feel like I 
can do that.” 
 
So I was trying to help them sort through, well, what are the deeper 
implications of this? 
 
And he said, “Well, I just want her to get excited about me, and I just 
enjoy it.” 
 
And so I said to her, “Could you maybe just hold his penis?” And she 
said, “Oh, sure. I could do that.”  I said, “I think sometimes he just 
 
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wants it enjoyed and recognized. Could you maybe just give it a kiss?” 
And she said, “Oh, I could do that.” And I said, “If you could just 
salute it once, I think he would be happy. I don’t think he really needs 
oral sex.” 
 
So, gals, when you think about oral sex, remember that part of it is 
the visual treat for your husband, and then some of it is just the 
recognition of his penis. 
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