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iQuestions Expert, Doug Rosenau
Question:
Can my medications be causing me sexual problems?
Answer:
We often get, as sex therapists, the questions about, “How do
medications affect lovemaking, affect our sexuality?”
If I were just going to tick them off, probably there are four major
ones that you should be aware of.
One would be the anti-depressants that can both affect desire
sometimes, as well as the ability to be aroused.
Birth control can be another one that’s important to realize that it
really can affect desire and needs to be checked out.
Another one would be just the anti-hypertensives, the blood pressure
medications that deal with blood flow, like erections.
So, it’s just important to remember that most medications have side
effects. I remember one young couple came to me, and he was just
saying, “Oh, no. Last night was a terrible time. I lost my erection.” And
we were trying to explore, and he said, “She was just in a lot of pain.”
So I said, “Well, that’s normal you would lose the erection if you feel
like you’re hurting her.”
So I explored why she had the pain, and what was going on. Long
story short, she was taking a decongestant, and it had dried out her
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vagina as well as her nasal passages. She was just feeling the pain,
and they had to deal with it.
So, remember that medications have side effects. The place to start
with this really is with your physician. Be able to go in and explore,
“Could we use a different type of medication? Could we use a different
family of medication? What could we do to get beyond the sexual side
effects?”
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